Something magical happens when you travel. Whether you’re exploring a hidden cove, a dazzling city or a vibrant jungle, getting away can create an invigorating shift in your headspace. Sometimes, all you need is an escape to see things clearly.
Why do we wanderlust?
For a lot of us, the desire to travel feels like an essential part of being human. Australians especially are known throughout the world for our endless love of adventure. We’re curious – we want to explore, see things outside our secluded daily lives and experience the beauty, strangeness and sheer variety of the world.
“From a very primal point of view, humans are nomadic by nature,” says psychologist Christine Bagley-Jones, director of the Counselling and Wellbeing Centre in Brisbane.
“Even though we have evolved, that innate desire to wander the lands is still embedded deeply in our psyche. Humans are also curious by nature, and travel lends itself to new experiences to grow.”
Experiences are precious to us, and collecting them can be revitalising. Psychological research has shown that spending money on experiences makes us happier than spending it on material goods. And because so many of us are getting out there and exploring different places, hearing each other’s stories can fuel the desire even more.
“Travel is so commonplace now it’s considered the norm, so many of us feel like we’re actually missing out if we don’t incorporate travel into our yearly plans,” Bagley-Jones says.
“And on a purely superficial level, it’s just a great way to recharge the batteries and have a bit of fun with those you love. So it’s very easy to understand why travelling is self-healing for so many.”
Often the anticipation of travel is half the fun. Letting yourself daydream, plan and relish that tingly excitement can give you an energy boost that powers you through long days of work in the lead up. Sometimes, all you need is something to look forward to make dreary times seem brighter.
Travel changes your perspective
Getting away from your usual surroundings can give you the distance you need to see things clearly. When you’re trekking up a mountain, wandering the cobbled streets of a fishing village or being dazzled by big city lights, your perspective can change, and insights can start to flow. A challenge that seems like a tangled mess at home can suddenly feel small and simple.
“Once you’re outside of your normal environment, you have the chance to reflect on your life in a more objective way. You’re able to take a break and really consider what’s important, what you’d like to change, and hopefully what you are grateful for,” Bagley-Jones says.
“Being removed from those stresses of daily living is vital for so you can have that personal check in, to ensure that you are still on track with what you consider a happy and meaningful life.
“I encourage clients all of the time to take holidays and use that opportunity to assess how they are progressing as a person, family member, friend, worker etc. I even suggest they journal their thoughts plans and goals so that they’ve got a record of the wonderful epiphanies they have on holidays.”
Experiencing different places and cultures also expands your worldview. Seeing how other people live can make you more compassionate and empathetic. Sometimes, it hits you right in the ribcage with a reminder of how lucky you are.
Then there’s the magic that happens when you allow yourself to be awed by all the astounding natural beauty that exists on this planet. As French writer Gustave Flaubert once said, “Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world.”
Getting out of your comfort zone
Choosing an adventurous spirit forces you to be braver, more resourceful and resilient. You have to embrace the unexpected and navigate unfamiliar places, sometimes with cultural and language barriers. Things go wrong, but you figure it out. The more you challenge yourself, the easier it becomes to do it next time. And that’s how you stretch your comfort zone wider and wider.
“Stepping outside of your comfort zone now and again is vital for personal development. By being stretched in different ways we learn more about who we are,” Bagley-Jones says. “It also gives us a chance to feel proud of ourselves for achieving something out of the ordinary.
“We are designed to thrive and in order to do that, growth is necessary. It’s very hard to grow if you don’t step outside your comfort zone now and again. The key here is to take all of the learning opportunities that you’ve gained while away back home with you so that you can incorporate them into your daily living.”